Let me try to answer your suggestions (which I thought were very insightful): If I was working with you I would want to know the following: * Are you aware of the reasons your wife has made this decision (i.e. is she mad at you, low self-esteem, is this doctrinal for her, etc.)? Once our last child was conceived, she came to me and said she didn’t want to be intimate any more. I asked why. She said she didn’t... Read more

I think it is very sad that faith plays such an important role in marital distress and can lead to divorce. In my opinion, we do a great disservice to our children by emphasizing common beliefs and faith, and temple marriage. Why don’t we give the same emphasis to love? I mention this because when differences in faith lead to divorce, I am convinced that the couple got married for the wrong reasons. A marriage based on Christ-like love, or... Read more

A Parent’s Guide published by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints Scream Free Parenting by Hal Runkel “Answers: A Parent’s Guidebook for Solving Problems” by Paul W. Robinson, PhD “Let’s Fix the Kids!” by James J. Jones “Manipulating Parents” by Paul W. Robinson, PhD Read more

Porn Trap by Wendy Matz Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts Edited by Stefanie Carnes, PhD Read more

The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner, Ph.D. Read more

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Divorce Busting by Michele Weiner-Davis The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by John M. Gottman, PhD Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversation for a Lifetime of Love by Sue Johnson, PhD Take Back Your Marriage by William Doherty The Divorce Remedy by Michele Weiner-Davis His Needs Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage by Willard F. Harley, Jr After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust when a Partner has been Unfaithful by Janis Abrahms Spring, PhD The Good Divorce:... Read more

I’m 30 years old, and have now been married 5 years, and no matter how amazing the sex, no matter how into we both are, how much we love it, I don’t orgasm. At least not in any recognizable way.Sex is amazing, we enjoy it frequently, we’re equal instigators, (well, I’m a little less so since having two kids, but in general I’m as into the idea of having sex as my sweet husband). We have so much fun together,... Read more