Don’t fail to notice what he DOES do — including what you might not have seen as “romance” before
One of the biggest mistakes we women make in romance is having too narrow a definition of it! We found in the For Women Only research that the majority of men see anything that is the two of you, together, as romance. Hiking, wandering the aisles at Home Depot, joining him to golf or to fish or to watch the dogs run around on Saturday morning, just to be together. All that makes him feel so close to you. Does he love it when you sit up close beside him on the couch to watch basketball together? That’s romance!
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So especially when he does something, notice and be excited about what he does, even if it doesn’t fit your idea of romance. Take him up on the idea of driving around to Ikea or Lowe’s or Costco to looking for a new patio chair set, and enjoy the time! Trust me… you’ll start seeing a LOT of things you never before realized were signals of his desire to be with you!
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