Part 4 — Your Husband Just Lost His Job: How to Respond

Tip #9: Make The Most Of The Transition Time

In the midst of the transition from one job to another, spend some time outside of crisis mode. As I shared in The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages, a powerful way for couples to combat stress and friction is by spending time together—doing special things or just hanging out. Use this time to do some fun things as a couple and as a family. Schedule a few daddy-daughter dates and father-son outings. Take on the DIY project that’s been on your to-do list for months. Eat breakfast in bed. Take walks or bike rides together. Yes, a job search is a job in itself, but encourage your husband to punch out regularly. Make playfulness, fun, and adventure a part of day-to-day life. The extra time together can prevent difficult circumstances from eroding your marriage and make it stronger instead.