Your loved one might want to share their thoughts with a trusted friend—you.
And finally—realize that your friend or loved one may simply be trying to build the relationship by sharing in this vulnerable area.
You may have someone in your life who constantly wants to talk politics but you just think it is easier to not go there. But if you’re in a genuinely intimate relationship, why wouldn’t that person want to discuss their views with you? Perhaps they want to see that you’ll listen and talk without judging or labeling them. Or maybe they are frustrated and need an outlet. Whatever it is, realize that in many cases, it is not that they believe you’re deluded and want to “convert” you . . . but that they just want to talk. To share life.
And even if that “talking” isn’t always handled well, have grace with them. In my research with the most happily married couples, one thing they clearly do differently is believe the best of the other person’s intentions—even when there are real irritations. So keep recognizing that your spouse (or sister, or childhood friend, or Uncle Frank) truly cares about you.
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