When Gift-Giving Conflicts Arise, Show Grace and Gratitude
Look for ways to meet both spouse’s short-term wants and needs without impacting your long-term goals. And have grace with your spouse. Yes, there will be times when we need to hold a hard line on expenses. But know and believe that your spouse has your best in mind. Be grateful for generosity, be thankful for restraint. Instead of clashing without giving in, soften and allow your different perspectives to complement one another.
Erin and Will agreed to limit his higher-priced gifts to two occasions: her birthday and their anniversary. He has committed to stay within an established price range. And Erin has determined that she will eliminate the “but” and simply say “Thank you.”
When you make the effort to understand and honor your spouse’s unique perspective and values as presents are exchanged over the holidays (and all year round), you’ll give—and receive—a gift much greater than money can buy.
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