A Depleted Emotional Bank Account
Maybe she’s exhausted or you’ve been absent a lot. Maybe the two of you have unresolved conflicts. Whatever the case (and even if it has nothing to do with you), concerns about your relationship will be more easily triggered if her emotional reserves are low. Ask her about her feelings, listen with interest as she shares, give her a big hug and tell her how special she is to you. That will help fill her emotional bank account back up again.
Husbands, when you find yourself hearing the “are we OK” question, respond to your wife’s insecurities with patience and care. Be aware of these four possible causes for her concerns. Provide the reassurance she needs. And your relationship will be a whole lot more than “OK.”
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