4 ways to get your marriage out of a rut

4. Remove the negativity.

You obviously need to try and remove your own negative attitudes, but also keep in mind that a new routine might involve being around some new people. Sometimes our negative friends help perpetuate the rut, so for the sake of your marriage, you might need to put some distance between yourself and those “friends.” Put yourself in the places (and around the people) who will help bring out the best in you and your spouse!

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