6 Signs that a Spouse is Considering Divorce

3. He/She is secretive with their cell phone (or tablet/computer) and gets defensive if anyone looks at it.

This is probably the most obvious one on the list! If a person is cheating, they’re going to be very concerned about getting caught, and the phone is the most common way people get caught. If your spouse is reluctant to let you see their phone (or if YOU are reluctant to show your phone to your spouse), then there are some serious trust issues at play. Even if infidelity isn’t happening, secrecy is a huge red flag in a marriage. Honesty and transparency pave the way to intimacy. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy in marriage.

#4 often marks the beginning of a “mid-life crisis,” but it can also be a telltale sign of infidelity…