
A man’s typical response when asked what he’s thinking about is “Nothing.” It’s not that we’re always thinking about nothing; it’s usually that we don’t know how to put our feelings into words. Your husband actually wants you, his wife, to know these things; but he doesn’t always know how to say it. This is, of course, a generalization and certainly doesn’t apply to all men at all times. Still, there seems to be a trend of guys struggling to communicate their feelings and desires and their wives struggling to know “What’s really on his mind?”
I’m going to share with you a list of 7 common desires most men have, but they’re also unlikely to say these things out loud. I’m sharing this here simply to spark some healthy conversations in your marriage. Not all of these will apply to every man, BUT many of these will probably apply to your husband. Ask him if these are true for him. It may lead to some of the most intimate conversations you’ve ever shared.
Seven things husbands desire but rarely communicate are (in no particular order)…