7 things your husband wishes you knew

2. He wants his wife to be classy in public but “naughty” in the bedroom.

There’s a rapper named “Ludacris” who has a famous lyric stating, “He wants a lady in the street but a freak in the bed!” I don’t normally quote rappers for their wisdom on marriage, but in this case, he’s actually pretty accurate in describing the unspoken feelings of most men. Your husband thinks about sex all the time. The average man has a sexual thought at least once per minute every waking hour of the day. He wants you to be a classy lady in all parts of your life, BUT he also wants you to be willing to make sex and shared sexual fantasy a priority with him. Men who are happiest in their marriage almost always cite a strong sexual satisfaction with his wife. Ask him about this. Ask him what his fantasies are with you and share yours with him. Obviously, these fantasies have to stay within the sacred, monogamous covenant of marriage, but there’s still a lot of room for creativity and FUN. Don’t let insecurities or feelings of inadequacy about body image get in the way. Your self-confidence turns him on. He loves YOU. He wants YOU.

#3 might change the way you spend your free time...