
5. He wants you to be a great mom, but he doesn’t want to feel like just another one of the kids. He also doesn’t want to feel like you value being a mom more than you value being a wife.
If you’re a parent, your kids obviously need huge amounts of your time and attention. Parenthood is a sacred responsibility and privilege, BUT when we put our marriage on the backburner while raising kids, everybody loses. Your kids need the security that comes from seeing a healthy marriage modeled before their eyes. Have the kind of marriage that actually makes your kids excited to get married someday! Make time for your husband. Don’t treat him like another kid and don’t treat him like an interruption. He should do the same for you.
#6 comes from a place of good intentions, but can deeply wound your husband…