Ten subtle ways to wreck a marriage

5. Porn (and/or graphic romance novels).

Many couples think porn is a harmless fantasy that can actually spice things up in the bedroom if they watch it together, but the truth is that porn is an enemy of real intimacy. For more on this, check out our post The Truth about Porn (by clicking here).

6. Having a “Cable Company Marriage”

Cable TV companies give their best rates and service at the beginning but then treat you much worse after the “promotional period” expires. Sadly, many marriages look like this. We give each other our best at the beginning of the relationship, but then get into “autopilot” and stop giving each other our best. We go from giving our best to giving as little as we possibly can, and the marriage slowly starves to death.

#7 can make or break your marriage…