
Sex is a beautiful, pleasurable and vital part of marriage, but sadly, most married couples aren’t too thrilled with their sex lives. There are many reasons for this, but one of the main reasons is a simple misunderstanding about how men and women tend to view sex very differently. These differences listed below don’t hold true in every case, but they’re accurate in most marriages. I hope these explanations create a deeper understanding and more intimate connection in your marriage.
These differences don’t make one spouse’s way “right” and the other “wrong.” Rather, these differences (like all differences in marriage) provide an opportunity for a husband and wife to work together with mutual respect and thoughtfulness to serve one another and reach a healthy solution together. It all begins with understanding your differences. Regardless of whether or not this list below is 100% accurate for you, talk to your spouse about his/her needs, desires and apprehensions. Greater communication creates better sex (and improves the other aspects of your marriage too)!
In most (not all) marriages, men and women tend to view sex differently in the following ways…