Stage 3: Consistency
This is where trust truly begins to form. Consistency is the primary ingredient of trust. When we observe consistency in honest words and actions from someone, we naturally let our guard down and can experience the deeper levels of relational intimacy trust always makes possible. Their consistency gives us the courage to take the next step.
Stage 4: Courage
Trust is rooted in viewing consistency in another person, but it still requires an element of faith and courage. This is the point in the relationship where we’re ready to put our heart on the line (or money on the line if it’s a business relationship/partnership). We’re willing to assume some risk (which is required in every relationship) because we now feel safe and secure with this person.
Stage 5: Commitment
Our courage to trust always leads to a commitment. Every relationship requires some level of commitment, and the level of our commitment will ultimately define the level of our relationship. This is more pronounced in a marriage relationship where the commitment is a sacred, lifelong vow, but even in friendship and business relationships, some level of commitment is always required.
#6 is final stage and the “litmus test” for knowing whether or not you trust someone…