When Your Spouse Disappoints You

10. Communicate with your spouse about everything. Tell him/her what you’re feeling. Talk about your hopes and dreams for the marriage. Be CLEAR about your expectations and what you want him/her to do to help.

Don’t expect your spouse to be a mindreader. Don’t silently punish him/her for not picking up on your non-verbal cues. Talk often and clearly about what’s on your mind. Communication will be vital to healing and moving forward. Connect often throughout the day. Make time for each other. Communicating might be the single most important way to reconnect and grow closer together.

#11 is the last one on the list, but it might also be the MOST important...