When Your Spouse Doesn’t Seem to Care Anymore

4. Tell your spouse exactly what is one your mind (in a loving and encouraging tone) at all times. Don’t expect him/her to know what you’re thinking. Say it clearly and consistently. Focus on communication.

The level of your honesty will help determine the level of your intimacy. Don’t use this as an opportunity to nag or criticize or complain, but still be willing to share your heart, your fears, your hopes, your prayers, your needs and your dreams for the marriage. Encourage your spouse to do the same. Communication might seem very difficult right now, but make it a priority. Don’t expect the issues to go away on their own. Talk about it and try to work together to identify the issues and find solutions.

#5 might be the most important one of all…