
5. Remind each other that this STRUGGLE you’re facing in your marriage will become a STORY someday. It will either be a story about how you worked together, became stronger and persevered OR it will be a story about why you divorced. The two of you must decide which of those two stories becomes true.
You didn’t choose this struggle, and you might feel powerless right now to choose how this story plays out, but you have some control here. Use your words, your actions, your time, your prayer and your influence to steer this marriage towards hope and healing. Don’t give up and don’t lose hope. Surround yourself with people who will encourage you and support you in this process. For additional support and solutions to help you fight for you marriage, please check out our new site at FightingForMyMarriage.com.