SED CONTRA is blogging up a storm, including this basic-but-true paragraph: “It’s also worth saying that I am not totally down on the so called gay rights movement. Yes, if I had to do it all over again, and I got to keep my memory as insurance against making the same mistakes, I would do some things differently, but not all. I think, all things considered, that keeping same sex attraction that you might experience secret from everyone is unhealthy and costly and I advise anyone in that boat to find at least one, two or three people whom they trust that they can tell. I also think it’s wrong for many people to make assumptions about all folks who live with some same sex attraction must not be committed to living a faithful life, to following Christ, to seeking the good. In the end it’s not what tempts us that matters most, it’s how we live.”