TO WHET YOUR APPETITE FOR THIS SUNDAY’S AWESOME AELRED DISCUSSION: New Haven correspondent Helen Rittelmeyer writes:

You know who was nuts about Aelred?

Cardinal Newman.

The best secondary source book I’ve found in The Great Senior Essay Hunt has been “Same-Sex Desire in Victorian Religious Culture” by Frederick Roden. (What a title! Available on Googlebooks!) He has a ten page discussion of Aelred & Newman that struck me in two ways.

1. I LOST MY METAPHOR — CAN I HAVE YOURS? Aelred of Simon: “The rule of the order forbade our speaking, but his countenance spoke to me, his gait spoke, his very silence spoke.” Are certain kinds of self-denial also like silence speaking?

2. These two quotes get filed together in my mind: John Dalgairns, talking about Aelred: “The very object of Monasticism is to give a proper outlet to devotional feelings, which are stifled in the world, because it would be fanatical to indulge them; it must therefore be made up to a great extent of
external actions. To throw oneself at the feet of another, and call oneself a miserable sinner, in a convent is part of the rule.”

No prizes for guessing which one comes next… “For my part, I think the only difference between them is that if you are a Catholic and have this intensity of belief you join the convent and are heard from no more; whereas if you are a Protestant and have it, there is no convent for you to join and you go about in the world getting into all sorts of trouble and drawing the wrath of people who don’t believe anything much at all down on your head.” (Flannery O’Connor)

Good luck with your talk!