“HOLDING YES AND NO TOGETHER IN ONE HAND”: Here, have a long but (I think) really fruitful discussion between me and the awesome Jendi Reiter. It’s about closets and complicity, and Catholics, and it’s part of the reason I’m working on a post about why I think the “intrinsically disordered” language the Church currently uses is simplistic and mechanical. I hope to offer alternative ways of talking about and understanding same-sex desire from a faithful Catholic perspective.