THEY ALL WANT LITTLE PIECES OF THIS YEAR’S GIRL: Over at the blog where I post stuff which is too long or spoilery for here, I’ve posted a ridiculously long thing about lesbianisms and why I was way too quick to talk as if every girl’s experience was like mine. Toward the end there’s some language which is a bit more explicit than what I want to have on the blog, as well. But overall the main point here is that I really, really needed to be more open to the fact that my experience is not The One Universal Lesbian Experience (In HD!) and I hope people whose experiences and interpretations of those experiences are radically different from mine will still write in to me.