SUBTEXTUAL CRITICISM: Helen contributes to the porn/adultery/norms discussion (which is also ongoing if you scroll around Ladyblog), asking, “Instead of ‘negotiating’ or being all American and sincerist about your relationship, couldn’t you be doing something more exciting with your mouth?“

She adds, “Like pedagogy?”

More on that second link’s subject–eros and education–soon.

ETA: She also offers her intro-to-decadence reading here.