ABORTION AND/AS/VS. HONOR KILLING. A pretty fascinating post, with no conclusions but some provocative questions.

I especially liked the description of how people can believe something is wrong, but it’s the right thing to do–this comes up all the time at the pregnancy center–and the acknowledgment that contemporary American elites also operate with an honor/shame culture when it comes to women’s reproductive capacities. The insistent, inaccurate identification of non-elite women’s choices with shame, and elite women’s choices with responsibility, was one of my least favorite things about Red Families vs. Blue Families. (I suspect the “Tiger Mom” fight/”mommy wars” in general reflect honor/shame culture around motherhood as well.)

And I really liked this point:

Volf, writing some guidelines for dialogue between Christians and Muslims, quotes another scholar saying that in any such discussion there are four participants: you and me, and your image of me and my image of you. Volf adds another dyad to that equation: my image of myself, and your image of yourself.

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