September 1, 2003

LITTLE TRIGGERS: So I’ve been thinking, as I mentioned a few days ago, about Unqualified Offering’s thought-provoking post on the equally thought-provoking poem “Thinking for Berky.”

I talked w/UO very briefly about the poem over the weekend. I agree with him that it isn’t quietist, though it may at first come off that way. It’s cautionary. It’s a poem that urges us to turn down the volume in our heads, to be wary of ultimatums, obvious heroics, and politics as opera. It’s conservative in the deepest sense–I don’t know that the poet would translate his thoughts into these terms, but I thought the line, “there are things time passing can never make come true,” captured the wounded nature of the world, the almost unbearable pressure of being neither good nor bad but Fallen, and the tragedy inherent in our capacity to commit irrevocable acts. It’s a poem against politics as Christ.

It’s really good. And I hope the above paragraph makes obvious that I think the poem supplies some of the most essential mental framework for people who are (and especially people who feel they must be) politically active.

But I have two cautions with which to condition this caution.

The first is the predictable response: Sometimes the big action is what’s needed. A March on Washington; a great speech; an assassination attempt; a revolution; a war. Conservatism and caution can become complacency and quietism, even though they don’t start that way. This is a predictable consequence of the human capacity to twist all our best impulses and desires into sin. (Augustine writes somewhere–can’t remember where–something to the effect that all sins are twisted malformations of virtues. And vice versa; Chesterton–in a sentence that was crucial to my conversion, actually–wrote, “The man who enters the whorehouse is seeking God.” Anyway….) I hinted at this in my post, “Religion is the amphetamine of the people.”

The second caution is that one man’s grand gesture is another man’s mosaic of intricate moves. As I’m sure UO intended, I read his post through several different prisms, two of which were most striking to me: my work at the pregnancy center, and the war in Iraq.

The center’s work is a perfect example, I think, of the kind of thing UO and Stafford are talking about. We go day to day, one woman at a time, trying to piece together a marriage culture in a world where marriage often seems as lovely but unattainable as Narnia or Never-Never Land. The center is Powerpuff Girls comic books and pamphlets on confession; pregnancy tests and presenting the Gospel; helping a homeless teen find housing and helping a woman assess her boyfriend. It often feels like it’s held together by duct tape, hope, and the Holy Spirit.

But to a lot of people, our project is utopian. People will always have sex! How can you ask women to sacrifice their dreams for their babies? Helen Alvare said (in an interview in Tikkun that was a big influence in my becoming pro-life) that the pro-life movement asks women to be heroes. I agree with that. And that is a big, big deal. It is a grand gesture as much as it is a small, one-life-at-a-time project. We are trying to effect major cultural change. I see the center as part of an incremental series of intricate moves toward justice; those who disagree with my premises see it as an attempt to propagandize women into a utopian, unrealistic mindset. (I, of course, think few worldviews are as unrealistic as the current dissociation of sex, marriage, and babies.)

The war in Iraq is, on the surface, exactly the kind of grand gesture that the Stafford poem is cautioning against. And I think that might be right. I’ve posted so little about Iraq here on the blog–after becoming a late and reluctant supporter of the war–because I have absolutely no idea what I think of it now. I often fear that any overall assessment of the war so far (and each week brings glowing reports, pitch-black ones, and optimistic-critical ones…) is so premature as to be irresponsible.

But the thing that strikes me about the war is that it, too, can appear as a series of intricate moves. Chief Wiggles’s blog makes that evident. Here’s a post that gives you a strong sense of a slow, idealistic-but-realistic, anti-utopian psychological campaign in the desert. CW is like the anti-Michael Ledeen in the way he talks about his work.

From the inside, many huge projects look like complex networks of day-by-day actions; from the outside, many complex networks look like grand sweeping juggernauts. You can see this in historical narratives, too: Do you slice-and-dice the Civil War into this Confederate general’s bad battle decision, that lucky break for the Union army, or this failure to enlist foreign forces on the CSA side? Or do you talk about Lincolnian insights, fundamentally flawed Confederate understandings of commerce and agriculture/industry balance, the rhetorical impact of the Emancipation Proclamation and the defeat of the proposal to enlist slaves for the Confederate armies?

There’s no conclusion to be drawn from this. As I hope I’ve made clear, I think the Stafford poem is both starkly-written and philosophically acute. Consider this a response, not a rebuttal. A warning inside a warning, maybe.

August 22, 2003

Blogwatch take a, blogwatch take a bow…

Dappled Things: Homily for the Feast of the Queenship of Mary, a.k.a. my birthday.

Sean Collins on manga and why it’s so popular here. Understanding Comics had a fascinating chart showing the differences in panel-to-panel transitions and use of time/space between manga and US-style comics, which made me want to read a lot more of the Japanese-style works; but I have to admit, I am both clueless and creeped out by the manga I’ve seen.

Clueless: I don’t know which books, if any, have good plots or characters. Creeped out: It’s the eyes. OK, also the bodies… but mostly those distended, Nutrasweet, evil-doll eyes. Can’t deal with ’em, at all. Any non-creepy-doll-eyed recommendations?

And: Big Toronto rally against same-sex marriage, August 27.

Atonement kegger?

Both those links via Relapsed Catholic.

August 20, 2003

POSSIBLE ACORN OF INSIGHT: I’m not really sure how to expand on this thought, but I really do think that many of the divisions in the debate over same-sex marriage come down to this: Do you think this debate is about heterosexuals and homosexuals, or do you think this debate is about men and women?

August 20, 2003

SAME-SEX MISHEGOSS: I have more posts at MarriageDebate.com, and Jonathan Rauch (with whom I had an entirely pleasant prior interaction working on the “Christianity from the Outside” symposium for Crisis) replies to my previous posts.

Gene Vilensky also replies to a swathe of my second MD.com post. I wrote, “Marriage is a political (legal) issue, not solely a cultural issue, precisely because when a man and a woman have sex they often produce a child, and that child needs to be protected. The political structure of civil marriage arose around that fact and in response to that fact. Marriage is not a political issue because the state has a compelling interest in making sure that its citizens have fulfilling relationships, or feel that their romantic choices are honored–how is that the state’s business? It’s a political issue because of all the, you know, kids.”

Gene responds here.

I have two quick replies: First, marriage as a political institution far predates the Christian states Gene’s discussing. As Maggie Gallagher has frequently pointed out, even societies that accepted or in some cases even praised homosexual activity did not develop same-sex marriage.

Second, though, I think you can remove the historical claim (which I do stand by, but it’s not necessary for the point I’m trying to make), and rephrase my sentence as, “In a secular society, marriage is a political (legal) issue, not solely a cultural issue, precisely because when a man and a woman have sex they often produce a child, and that child needs to be protected,” etc.

Gene also objects to various aspects of Maggie Gallagher and Linda Waite’s book The Case for Marriage. I will first just say that he should read the book! If he does, he will find that it specifically does not argue that “two parents who are always fighting a la Michael Douglas and Kathleen Turner in War of the Roses are better off staying together and scarring the kids rather than getting a divorce.” Reading the book would both focus his critique and answer some of his preliminary objections, I think.

But I will also point him, and others interested in issues of self-selection in marriage studies, to a post I did on the subject. It certainly doesn’t answer all possible questions about self-selection. But it does highlight some of the ways in which social science requires a robust foundation of philosophy in order to know, for example, which factors are relevant, how persuasive alternate explanations of the data are, and–in this case–how to understand selection effects.

August 19, 2003

I’VE STARTED POSTING STUFF at the MarriageDebate blog. FYI.

August 15, 2003

When you drink a quart of blogwatch

with your bacon and your eggs

Kind of a killer when when when when

when you walk the hundred miles to your baby

and your baby has her daddy’s car….

Forager 23: Clarifies his remarks on comics and opera, gently hinting that I totally missed his point. Hey, call it a strong misreading, I’ve always been real into that Harold Bloom guy…? More comicsy stuff here.

Mark Shea and Amy Welborn: Tag-team audience participation posts. Shea asks about non-Catholic authors who drew you toward Catholicism (which, coincidentally, I’ve already written about here) and Welborn asks for general reminiscences of books that drew you to the faith. As you might expect, they get terrific responses. My official must-read recommendations for the day.

Maggie Gallagher on same-sex marriage and divorce. My other must-read recommendation. More on this from me later today.

August 7, 2003

It was then I knew that I’d rather be

With a .22 caliber next to me

Than the blogwatch…

EDITED TO ADD: How could I forget Letter from Gotham’s wild post on Australian Jewish convict history?

Hardcore, sharp comments from Lileks on Gene Robinson and marriage (scroll to the last item).

Marriage Debate blog is debating civil unions and whatnot. Will see if I have anything useful to say (but not this minute; see below).

Which movies do Presidents watch? Fascinating trivia, via Hit & Run.


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