Nesting

Nesting May 19, 2014

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The testing ground of love is how we help each other through suffering and loss without robbing each other of the chance to feel and grow. This poem bears witness to such a time for me.

 

Nesting

Last week, I was on a pier in Charleston.

There was a pelican, very close. I remem-

bered that pelicans make their nest by pluck-

ing feathers from their chest. The water kept

lapping and I felt illumined, for a moment.

Aware that you were home, medicating Mira.

Aware my father was on his side, unable to get

out of bed. Aware your brother, unable to choose

life, was again in jail. Aware that you are nesting

like a pelican in the middle of all this. Last night,

in the concert, as the guitars softened our worry,

I watched the light of the theatre quiet your face,

as I have for years, and thought, I know we will lose

things dear to us and it will seem impossible to go on.

And though the weight of grief we fear and master

looms like a dark god, I will be there when words

fail, to rub your feet and stir the soup, to

sweep up the slivers of pain that will come

from us. I know each thing we lose will cut

a string, but life is learning to play music

with the strings that are left. I took your

hand and closed my eyes. Aware that

the pelican so many miles away

was in flight.

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