My buddy Gordon took this photo on April 16, 2007. I know the date because we had just crossed over the Holston River in his red truck when the DJ on the country radio station stopped the music for breaking news.
“There’s been a shooting at Virginia Tech,” he said.
32 people were killed.
Dozens more were wounded.
We didn’t know that, yet, though. We wouldn’t know it until the next morning when we watched the news on Good Morning America in the sunroom of Gordon & Pam’s home in Crossville, Tennessee.
All we knew at that moment was that a gunman on campus had shot somebody’s kids, and we weren’t but an hour from the Virginia border ourselves.
We were headed for the holler where I’d spent a great deal of time that summer of 1966 after Daddy died.
My mama’s aunt, Lucille Shropshire Christian, took us kids in so Mama could tend to the business of burying our daddy. Aunt Cil never was able to have children of her own so you can just imagine how much she loved on us.
Cil had married an older man who had boy nearly grown already. Cousin Lon never did leave home, even after his daddy passed. Lon was deaf, and in those days, in those places, deaf children were considered unfit for schooling. So Lon wasn’t only deaf, he was a mute. He never learned how to talk. The only way to understand Lon was to know him, and the only person who knew him well enough to really communicate with him was Aunt Cil.
When you’re a little girl and your grown man cousin sits on the front porch with a loopy smile on his face, it’s kinda unnerving. You wished he wouldn’t grunt as he offers you the tin cup to get a drink of the well water he just drawed up. You don’t know if it’s proper to speak to somebody who can’t answer you back. Do you say thank you? Or do you just smile and take the cup even if you ain’t one bit thirsty?
“It’s okay. You ain’t got to be afraid,” Aunt Cil said. “Lon can’t hear, that’s all. He ain’t going to hurt you.”
And from that moment on, you never were afraid of Lon again. You learned he had quite a sense of humor. He liked to stand with you and Brother John down at the barn and watch the two of you laugh at the pigs wallering in the mud.
In those first few moments after you heard the news about a shooting at Virginia Tech, Gordon and you were kinda of mute. He leaned forward and turned up the volume as he drove further back into the holler, under a canopy of limey-green shade trees on either side of the road. Sometimes the Holston was so close Gordon could have spat directly into it, if he’d been so inclined. You remember your mama telling you that the river used to flood the roads when she was a little girl and had to walk from the ferry dock to Aunt Cil’s. There wasn’t a bridge in those days, Mama said. A ferry took you acrost the river. You try to imagine your mama walking all the way up this holler. It’s a long, long walk.
You and Gordon communicate in the way that Aunt Cil and Lon did. You understand each other’s sorrow. Not just about Virginia Tech, although there is that, but also about all that’s been eating away at Gordon from the inside out.
He was just a young boy, not yet grown, when that sniper blew his jaw clean off his face. Mr. & Mrs. Wofford’s handsome son lost all his perfect pearly whites. Forever after, he would have to remember that gun battle every morning when he slipped a set of false teeth into his mouth.
Gordon first got ahold of you after he seen Miz Robin interview you on Good Morning America about that book you’d written about your daddy’s death in Vietnam. He caught the last couple of minutes of the interview and had a heck of time trying to track down that book. But he read it in one sitting and sent you an email telling you just a brief part of his own story. And because he was a hillbilly from Tennessee, you figured him to be a gift from God. You weren’t wrong about that.
Whenever you came South, he and Miz Pam welcomed you with an uncommon hospitality. And knowing as he did, how much you loved going to up that holler by the Holston, Gordon would carry you there whenever you asked.
So far, you’ve only made enough money to buy Aunt Cil a gravestone made from pink Tennessee marble and engraved with the saying – WORDS RISE UP OUT OF THE COUNTRY. You chose them words to honor the woman who wasn’t afraid to tell you stories about your daddy the summer he died. She was the only person who would still say your daddy’s name to you — DAVE — after he died. Everybody else was mute when it came to talking about DAVE.
Gordon had been undergoing test trials up in Charlottesville, Virginia, trying to cure the cancer that was growing like a turnip in his brain. During the treatment phase, he would call you at your home in Oregon whenever he got to Kingsport and talk to you until he was nearly to Knoxville, because he couldn’t help but think of your long-dead daddy, asleep in that national cemetery located about halfway between the two K-towns. You think about those phone calls now and how much you miss those stories he told you. You wish you’d written them all down, word for word.
You wish you’d known when the two of you were poking around the holler that day up at Aunt Cil’s old place that this would be the last trip you two would ever make together. But all you remember is the laughter you two shared as Gordon in his boots stomped down the grass so he could take your picture in front of the store your uncle once robbed.
“Snakes probably sleeping in these grasses somewhere,” Gordon said, as he prepared the way so you could stand next to John 3:16.
Because he had experienced the nightmare that is war, Gordon understood that what drew you back to the holler along the Holston was the memory of the safeness you felt wrapped up in the arms of your Aunt Cil.
Gordon knew that holler had been your sanctuary the summer of 1966.
You haven’t been back to the sanctuary of that holler since the day that crazed gunman killed all those precious people at Virginia Tech, since the cancer killed Gordon just like he always said it would, since the day the music died.
Gordon, Butterbean, A.J., the scarecrow and dinner.
I got to thinking about Gordon and that trip to the holler after reading Sweet Sanctuary, a book written by Cindy Coloma & Shelia Walsh. Patheos is hosting a discussion here about the notion of sanctuary. Please feel free to pop over there, of if you like, just join in the conversation below.
So what about you? Do you have a place of sacred memory? A person who gave you shelter? A sanctuary where you have sought and found refuge? Your very own Holler of the Holies?