Pray. Fast. Act.

Pray. Fast. Act. August 23, 2018
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It’s taken me a few days to collect my thoughts after reading the Letter to the People of God Pope Francis put out on Monday. The first sentence was jarring for me, so I wanted to take some time to think before posting about it.

Pope Francis began his letter by quoting 1 Corinthians 12:26.

“If one member suffers, all suffer together with it.”

That verse hit me hard because I know the surrounding scripture very well.

In 1999, I highlighted 1 Corinthians 12:27 in the new Bible my church had just given me to celebrate my high school graduation. I stood alone in front of my church and read that verse out loud in an attempt to light a fire under my congregation. I wanted them to hold a predator accountable for his actions.

“Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.”

My highlighted Bible from 1999

Nobody was listening that day.

The only reaction of any kind I received was a woman who berated me after church for what I’d done.

I think I understand what Pope Francis is suggesting here, and if I do understand him, I agree. We should all stand in solidarity with victims. It’s easy for us to think, “Well, I’m not abusing anyone, so it’s not my problem.”

What he says here does help combat that. It could help to stop the sort of verbal beating I received for speaking out. It sensitizes us better to the pain that victims endure. I totally get that.

But we have to be very clear that there are different levels of accountability here. We are not all equally accountable for the abuse. If I do something, as a layperson, to encourage the type of culture that abuse can flourish in, then yes, I need to address that. I think praying and fasting could help with that.

We can’t equate actively abusing someone or actively covering up that abuse with being complicit in some lesser way, though.

A predator made the choice to target me. He is accountable for his own actions.

My church council members made the choice to enable him and shelter him from justice. They are accountable for their actions.

The average member of my church, who was just sitting in a pew watching parts of this unfold, is also accountable for any way they were complicit or indifferent, but they do not bear the burden that predator or those who actively enabled him bear.

And the one member of my church who vocally supported me and revoked his membership over what happened bears no guilt at all.

When I stood up front that Sunday morning and read from my Bible, I read from Matthew too.

“If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut if off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.” – Matthew 5:29-30

It’s not enough to recognize that we’re all one body. It’s not enough to suffer alongside victims of abuse.

We have to operate and scrape out the infection. Nobody who abuses another person or actively enables that abuse is of Christ. They are not actually part of our body. They must be cut out or this infection will continue to spread.

I hope this letter from Pope Francis is just a start. I believe it’s wise to begin with encouraging more solidarity with victims and loosening the power of clericalism, but we have to take action soon as well. Anyone who was involved has to go. There is no way forward without that.

I left my church because my church allowed that predator to stay. Predators and prey can’t coexist.

Predators can’t be allowed to remain where they have access to a pool of potential victims. Predators can’t be allowed any type of power or authority. They must be held accountable for what they’ve done and that means we have to cut them out and remove them from the body.

Men who were in positions of power and used that power to enable this abuse must be stripped of their ability to do future harm as well. These predators could never have caused so much damage without men in positions of power protecting them.

I got tired of making do with reading the Bible online and bought a Catholic Bible. Then the Pennsylvania Grand Jury Report came out, and the first time I opened that Bible was to look up scripture I wanted to quote on the blog post I wrote that night.

Now I own two Bibles that were broken in because I was looking for something to say about predators.

Nobody listened to an eighteen-year-old girl in 1999.

Here I sit, almost 20 years later, in an entirely different Christian tradition, wondering if anyone’s finally ready to listen and act.

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  • I think we all need to take stock of the CAFLGBTQ sexual revolution that has sprung up since the 1950s, and think very hard about what the true purpose of sexuality is to a species *as a whole* rather than to individuals.

    I think if we did that, we’d stop this mess dead in its tracks. NO, sex is not the most important thing in a person’s life. NO, you don’t have to abuse people if you can’t have sex procreatively (for whatever reason). YES, there are other ways to show love that don’t involve using a person as a masturbation tool.

  • John Swaringen

    I fear this is the tip of the iceberg when t comes to scandal, however we cannot allow this abuse to continue!

    As a person who is in the process of converting, I can completely understand what you’re saying. I don’t think excommunication is required but they have to b rooted out and replaced. I know we’re all sinners but The abused, and I, cry out,for justice.

  • I agree we’ve only seen a tiny piece of what’s actually there. Yes, we definitely need justice. We’re all sinners, but we aren’t all predators, and that’s the difference.

    It can be a rough time to be in the process of converting, but I’m hopeful. I expect a lot more to come out soon and that’s what we need. We need to expose everything to the light.

  • Vishnu Murthy

    What Powerfull God asume God in last I never had before i never see history of the Church to do his serisly we do serving it my pleasure it greatst honner me servering the lord mission work lord as given direction of his vision following that in pray fuly asking God his greace pratical time preaching teaching praying honestly