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Why All Husbands Should Read Fields’ New Book
Most men don’t read books on marital advice. In fact, the only...
The Raging Bull
Once upon a time there was a man who had been raised...
Is Respect Earned or Given?
Perhaps I’m just a curmudgeonly old guy now, but it seems to...
The Dangers of Steroids for Boys
Many high school boys are involved in sports programs. Sports can be...
Contract for Men
With all the media coverage of men behaving badly (from Richard Sherman...
Is Choosing Not to Work Healthy?
As I travel around during the day I often observe more and...
I'm coming to Australia - book me!
I’ll be traveling to Australia March 10-26, 2014 and I’m looking for...
How You Can Stop the Cycle of Fatherlessness
A ton of research shows that children from fatherless homes fare worse...
An Open Message to Men on the Warfare...
Guys, we need to stop being ashamed of being men. Virtually every...
Why Men Don't Share Feelings (Part 2)
Most men do not tell their wives what they really feel because...
Teaching Boys Courage
Courage is the quality of mind or spirit that enables a person...
Why Men Don't Share Their Feelings (Part 1)
Men are trained from a young age to deny their true feelings....
12 Keys to a Guy-Grabbing Christmas Eve Service
When it comes to reaching men, Christmas Eve services are the Super...
The three most powerful words that launch you...
Undoubtedly some sort of big goal lies in front of you. Maybe...
Why Churches Make so few Disciples
So why doesn’t Pastor Wally re-arrange his schedule so he can spend...
Gospel or gimmick?
There’s something in our hearts that causes us to suspect anything in...
What college men really need from the church
Maybe young guys are leaving Christianity because they are longing for a...
This Veteran’s Day: You've Been Given Much
This Veterans Day, I wish we might glimpse anew the freedom we’ve...
Is Your Life Worthy of Your Calling?
One question that changes everything: Is your life worthy of the calling...
How the Band of Brothers can Point us...
A bulldozer had cut a jagged swathe up Mount Currahee, the 3...
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How do you develop a wise, skillful approach to finances? It’s...
Why College Men Need Church
Fact: If you’re a guy in high school and attend church...
Dad's noble reason for skipping church
Fathers often choose youth sports over church for a reason most Christians...
What Christian women really, really want
These stunning survey results give us a clue as to why Christianity...
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Because of these frequent beat downs, some pastors develop a foxhole mentality....
Using cinema to open men's hearts
Film is the new campfire. It’s the shared culture of young men....
What kids heading back to school need most...
“Back to school” has been blaring at us from every media outlet....
Rant of the Day—Make Boys Tough
Exceptionalism and rugged-individualism helped make America the greatest country that has ever...
Will marriage change gays - or will gays...
What happens when straight men see their married gay brethren continuing to...
What church will be like in 50 years...
These changes may sound horrifying to you, but in 50 years they...
What church will be like in 50 years...
In the same way WalMart took over the mom-and-pop store, a handful...
What Does a Man Look Like?
Last week we talked about young men thinking that they didn’t feel...
Is father love welcome in the church?
Father love is like a vaccination: it causes momentary pain, but promotes...
Pick the Pain You’d Rather Have--You've Gotta Choose...
A despised word nowadays is discipline. Yet that’s a word that...
The Incredible Power of Sacrifice
As a prisoner of the Imperial Japanese Army in the jungles...
Are You TOO Nice?
Years ago I worked alongside a difficult co-worker. This young man...
How to Be a Man of Awe
“Dad,” said my 9-year-old daughter, Addy. “Some kid in the park...
Go Ahead, Dude, Read that Novel
If you’re planning a vacation this summer, then you know there’s nothing...
The Death of Masculinity? (Hank Hill Part 2)
A lot of men (mostly young men) tell me that they don’t...
Why men aren't stepping up
Men just aren’t as important as they once were. Suddenly, society can...
Whatever Happened to Hank Hill Masculinity? Part 1
While most TV sit-coms make fun of men or make them look...
Boundaries Make Boys into Men
This past season, several high-profile college head football and basketball coaches have...
Can a man love God but hate churchgoing?
More than half of the committed Christian men I talk to, when...
3 Powerful Weapons Against Porn
Early in the morning at a recent conference, I deliberately decided...
Why Young People Should Read Books about WWII
I’ve authored or coauthored five books about World War II, and...
Symbols of Glory--Why They Matter
All men have a yearning for greatness, for significance. We want to...
Daddy's Girl (part 2)
Part two of this article looks at the incredible potential fathers have...
Gangs fathering the fatherless
"A gang gives you something that nothing in the world or no...
Daddy's Girl (part 1)
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Does a lack of men lead to liberalism?...
Men tend to put rules first; women tend to put relationships first.
Lessons learned from drunk kings and naked women
King Herod was his name, and he did plenty of things wrong....
You're going to have so much fun raising...
The elderly woman stood next to me in line at the bookstore...
Pornography—Trapping Boys for a Lifetime
Porn is part of your son’s everyday life. He sees it every...
Does a lack of men lead to liberalism?...
In the past five years several mainline denominations moved to the left,...
Why Boys Need Honor
Perhaps no character trait embodies healthy masculinity more than that of honor. ...
Men, superheroes and church
For decades churches have had difficulty engaging young men. Not only are...
The Heart of Masculinity
All boys want to know how a man is supposed to act. ...
Inspiring a Vision in Boys
My good friend, Tony Rorie, is the founder of a program called...
When a Man Faces Absolute Horror
New York Timesbestselling author Adam Makos and I recently released a new...
Never Forget: War is War
Over the last few weeks I've been giving you a special preview inside the...
When a Good Man Gets Kicked in the...
New York Times bestselling author Adam Makos and I released a new...
When Men Don't Control Themselves
I love watching football. I used to love playing it when I...
Are sermons becoming obsolete?
The live lecture is disappearing. Only two institutions still regularly offer them:...
How to Get More Sex From Your Marriage
I was recently asked to speak at a large men’s conference. Besides...
Teens - Is It Better to Get a...
One of the major conflicts I hear from parents of teenagers is...
Help me reinvent men's ministry
Almost every church that launches a men’s program meets with failure. There's...
Hello from the new kid on the blog...
About a decade ago I noticed something that had been hidden in...
How Hunting Teaches Boys Compassion
Surprisingly, one activity that is very healthy in the emotional development of...
4 Tips to Teach Kids Delayed Gratification
Today, with the challenges to our economy, it is imperative to teach...
Who Do You Need to Thank?
This weekend marked the 85th Academy Awards, a time of pageantry and...
Why Men Need to Teach Boys Perseverance
Life is difficult. And the things that mean the most in life...
How to Arrive at the Best Ideas Ever
You’re a brainstorming kind of a guy. I can see that about...
10 Most Disliked Athletes
Who is your favorite Athlete? Scratch that. Who is your least favorite...
Girls...and Boys on Hormones!
By the time a young man has entered puberty he is well...
The Super Bowl Craze
It’s not Christmas, New Years Eve, or July 4th… it’s a different...
The Power of Fathers
One way to judge the degree of power or influence that something...
Actions Speak Louder Than Words
The type of men we are determines the type of men our...
A Father's Protection
There is an old legend regarding the Cherokee Indian youth's Rite of...
Boys and Elephants
A number of years ago there was a problem with the elephant...
What Won Babe Heffron’s Respect
Two summers ago I found myself at a book signing event seated...
Help, for When the Future is Unknown
At the start of a new year, your next 12 months are...
How Beautiful the Boring Games You Played as...
“So, Dad,” said my young daughter, Addy. “What are you going to...
Breaking the Ice
Finish the sentence: “When I was in high school, you would have...
Perpetuating the Cycle
Fatherless boys tend to follow in the footsteps modeled for them, perpetuating...
Where Have All The Good Men Gone?
In her article in the Wall Street Journal, Kay S. Hymowitz comments...
My 10 Favorite 'Manly' Actors
Here’s a list of my favorite “manly” actors from today’s movies—there’s a...
Stop Looking So Busy
In most work cultures, an unwritten rule exists that you need to...
A Culture Without Vision Perishes
A blind man once asked a wise man, “Is there anything worse...
Why is National Bullying Prevention Month Important?
Every month of the year is some kind of an “awareness month.”...
Boys Need Men
Early in the movie, GoodFellas, Ray Liotta’s character is a teenage boy...
Porn Star Lipstick
While I was eating my cereal the other morning I was looking...
A Guy's Take on "What Your Husband Isn't...
Mutual understanding and communication are the best way to strengthen a marriage....
The Single Best Thing You Can Do For...
During my senior year of college I started feeling sick. It began...
Teaching Girls to Weld in the Jungle
I have brought you glory on earth by finishing the work you gave...
Achieving a Success You Never Imagined
How many times have we hoped for a specific type of success,...
5 Ways to Tell if a Job is...
In a downed economy, any job might make a good fit. But...
I Was Here
Beyonce has a new music video that’s creating a little bit of...
Recruiting Ain’t Like It Used to Be
5 years ago I claimed that recruiting and managing today’s volunteers "ain’t...
Feel Threatened? Two Vital Actions to Take
Hostilities exist. President F.D. Roosevelt spoke those two words within his legendary...
Marijuana Use Actually Declines?
Now that people in Colorado and Washington can smoke weed recreationally, marijuana...
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