I recently had the opportunity to interview Wendy and Tom Montgomery and their two children, Jordan (15) and Susannah (14). They are devout Mormons from California who have five children in total. They were part of the movement of many LDS members who pounded on doors in 2008 to support the passage of Proposition 8, the state referendum that overturned the ruling that allowed same-sex couples to marry in California. They did so not knowing that their oldest son Jordan was gay and that he was struggling with suicidal ideation due to the position his church had taken that homosexual behavior was sinful. He was also worried his family would cut him off if he told them what he was struggling with. He was 13 when he came out to his parents.
This podcast touches on how they have become an advocate for him within the church and their community. They discuss the struggles of loving their faith and wanting to continue with their Mormon heritage while simultaneously going through many hurtful experiences as they try to educate themselves and others and stand in unity as a family structure. It is a wonderfully vulnerable and open window into the types of issues so many LDS families are struggling with as they grapple with the implications of our Mormon beliefs and their LGBT loved ones.
They have been recently interviewed by a wide variety of media outlets.
Oblivion (A Mormon Teen Speaks Out for Others, Part 1 of 2) by Susannah Montgomery on No More Strangers: LGBT Mormon ForumOblivion (A Mormon Teen Speaks Out for Others, Part 2 of 2)
Huffington Post did an article called Gay Mormons: Wendy and Tom Montgomery Lead Push to Change LDS Church Stance on Homosexuality.
Daniel Parkinson is the main moderator at Gay Mormon Stories