I think this is interesting information in light of my poll results where more women than men reported having premarital sex.  This study is also interesting in that it shows that teens have delayed their first sexual encounters within the last 10 years: correlated to more sexual education. Some of the theories out there as to why girls may not be more aggressive about their sexual safety is that they see it more as the boy’s responsibility (i.e. condom use) and... Read more

Natasha, I just wanted to ask if you offer couple therapy by way of telephone consultation?  Yes, I do offer therapy services through both telephone and/or skype video conferencing.  If you are interested in such services send me a quick message to my email: natasha.parker@sbcglobal.net letting me know the basic presenting problem, what you are looking to achieve, times of availability and what time zone you are in.  I, in turn, will send you some forms to fill out outlining... Read more

I have posted a question that has been of interest to me as I look forward to a time when I would find someone to spend the rest of my life with. I have been divorced for over a year. I posted my question on the podcast on your blog and e-mailed it to Wes. I have posted similar questions elsewhere and asked many people no one has seemed to even try and answer it. I agree with what you... Read more

I’ve had a regular reader of the blog show interest in being able to live chat with others who are interested in the topics discussed.  Here is what he says: Here’s how to reach others who post questions and comments to thisblog, for real time discussion: If you already have an account on IRC (internet relay chat) connect tothe freenode.net network, and then join #mormon_therapist. If you do NOT have an IRC account, then you can reach the channel as... Read more

I’d just like to offer the following resource for males who have experienced sexual abuse at some point in their past:malesurvivor.org Read more

Here is a link to my latest interview on Mormon Stories where I interview a dear friend of mine regarding her husband losing his testimony: Dealing with husband’s LDS disaffection as a believing wife. Read more

I have been approached about offering online, interactive courses that would range in price somewhere between $250-$395. These courses would consist of 3-5 modules and offer a variety of topics (i.e. premarital work, sexuality within newlywed marriage, sexuality within more mature marriage, communication/relational skills, parenting adolescents, parenting small children, teaching your children sexual education, etc., etc.). I would appreciate feedback/comments on two levels: Would you consider taking an interactive, online course? Why or why not? If you are interested, what... Read more

Please take note of my new polls on marital sexuality and worthiness. Thank you! Read more

I feel frustrated in therapy, like I go there, tell about my week, and then go home. That’s something I can do with anyone. I’m looking for goals and assignments and maybe some tips on how to deal with my circling thoughts and anxiety attacks . . . frustrating. I asked my doctor about it and she said that these things take time. So should I seek a new therapist or keep telling my current one about my week? It... Read more