From the Marlboro Man to Pajama Boy: The “Evolution” of Manhood?

A Picture is Worth 1000 Words

Marketers know this.  They know that images imprint themselves on our minds and on the collective soul of society.  Marketing images not only try to shape society’s perceptions, but sometimes they reflect at least some truth about society.  Marketers use images to create a need for a product—choosing images that elicit our identification with the image or stir up in us the desire to emulate that image.  For example, if the image is of a man who always gets the girl simply by wearing a certain aftershave, the marketers hope that on some level I, as a man, will either see myself as that man and buy the aftershave or aspire to be that man and buy the aftershave.

A picture is worth a thousand words.  Images imprint perceptions.  So, for the fun of it, let’s look (with a bit of tongue in cheek) at two images of men, one from 2013 and one from the 1960’s, and tease out some things these images may be saying about manhood now and a generation or two ago.

(First, take a look at these two images together.  Once I put them side by side I was struck on several levels by how similar they are in terms of staging and by what each of them said about manhood.)

 

 

 

 

The first image is the iconic 1960’s image of the Marlboro Man.  This is the image I grew up with.  Look at the picture.  What does it say about a man?  Here’s what I see (as a 56 year old male):

  • Notice that he’s dressed in work clothes—to get something done.  Maybe he’s taking a break from working the ranch or getting ready to start his day.  He’s a man of work and action.
  • Notice that he’s in the great outdoors.  Life for him is an adventure—he’s ready to wrangle a bull or break a horse.
  • Notice the chiseled face, the intensity of the eyes.  This is a man who has his face set on the day ahead—on the task at hand.
  • Notice how even the cigarette is used to create a sense of action—the Marlboro man is reaching into his pocket presumably for a match or to put the matchbook away.
  • There’s a sense of the rugged individual in this picture.  He’s out on the ranch, by himself, taking stock of the job ahead, knowing that it’s all dependent on him.  No one else is around.
  • This is one tough, manly dude.

So what does this marketing image want of me?  It wants me to either say, I’m like that guy, so I, too, will use Marlboro or I want to be like that guy.  This is what a man is.  That’s the kind of man I aspire to be.  So to be like that I better start smoking Marlboro.  (I could include a snarky comment or two about smoking at this point, but that’s not the main focus of this little exercise.)

The second image is recent.  It is a part of the Obama Administration’s marketing plan for the Affordable Health Care Act.  (And yes, the irony of the two products is not lost on me.)  This particular ad is targeting Millennials.  What does it say about a man in the 21st Century?  (Here’s what I see as the dad of a Millennial son):

  • Notice that he’s dressed to stay indoors—wearing his jammies (a onesie at that).  He’s perched on a couch, legs crossed, suggesting he’s not going anywhere soon.  The vibe is passive rather than active in terms of physical activity although his body language suggests that he’s ready to engage in a conversation.
  • Notice that he’s enjoying a cup of hot chocolate, a further suggestion that he’s kicking back.  In fact, the way he holds the cup is passive—it’s settled in his hands—versus actively drinking it.
  • Notice that he has a pleasant face—one that looks ready to talk with someone.  Or, maybe another way of reading his face: perhaps he’s saying—What do you think?
  • Notice he’s focused on something, and the copy tells us that he’s focused on another person.  He’s in essence settling in to talk—in his jammies—to someone else about health insurance.
  • This is a guy who looks friendly (albeit, from my perspective a bit creepy in his jammies), the kind of guy you might want to hang out with.

What does this marketing image want to say to young men?  This is what a man looks like.  This is you.  This is how you roll.  You are relaxed.  You are comfortable.  You are ready to engage with the important issues of life.  You enjoy hanging out with your friends talking about things that matter.  (In your jammies.)

Interestingly, the marketers of the first image labeled it: The Marlboro Man.  Moments after the ObamaCare ad came out society labeled the second image:  Pajama Boy.  Not Pajama Guy or Pajama Man or Pajama Young Adult but Pajama Boy.  (And the guy is how old?  Late 20’s?  30’s?)

These two images, as marketing ads, do have, I think, something to say about how we perceived manhood a generation ago and how it’s perceived today.  The marketers of Pajama Boy chose that image for a reason.  They spent lots of money to come up with that image.  On some level they believe that Millennial men will relate to that image, either saying, That’s me…I need to talk about health insurance, or, Wow, I want to be like that guy, so I better get in my jammies, grab a cup of hot chocolate, and veg out with my pals in their jammies and talk about health care.  (Sorry, I can’t help myself—the snark keeps slipping out.)

The problem with the Marlboro man was that it created the stereotype that men are isolated individuals who solve problems on their own while sucking away at a cancer-producing stick.  Marlboro men worked hard, often at the expense of relationships, died of early heart attacks, or died with the regret that they had worked so hard only to lose their souls.  On the other hand, Marlboro men were men of action.  They got things done!

The problem with Pajama Boy is that it seems to feed into the stereotype that today’s young men are still boys.  Rather than actively working hard, they are passive, sitting around in jammies drinking hot chocolate (or coffee or alcohol), solving the worlds problems through conversation rather than action.  Will they ever grow up?  Will they ever get off of the couch?  Will they ever get out of their onesies and do something to make the world a better place?  On the other hand, many of us hope that they will help solve some of the pressing issues in our country today, in part through intelligent discussions (sorely lacking in culture today).

Again, both images are extremes. (The reality is that there are as many different pictures or images of manhood as there are men in the world.  Having said that, there are some overarching biological and brain characteristics that make men men versus women.  And…Manhood is about character—it’s how a man lives his life.)  But images imprint.  Images shape and capture perception and reality.

What does Pajama Boy say about manhood to you in the 21st Century?

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About Tim Wright

I've been a pastor in the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America since 1984, currently serving as the founding pastor of Community of Grace in Peoria, AZ. My wife, Jan and I, were married in 1979. We raised two kids and currently have 3 grandkids. I love to ride my bike, travel, read British Mysteries, and Disneyland. I have written 6 books, including my newest--Searching for Tom Sawyer: How Parents and Congregations Can Stop the Exodus of Boys From Church. My website: www.TimWrightMinistries.org

  • http://www.churchformen.com/ David Murrow

    Great column, Tim. You beat me to it.

    The contrast is not only in terms of masculinity, but in adulthood vs. childishness. Pajama boy is wearing a child’s garment, drinking a child’s drink. He’s the poster child for extended adolescence.

    • RevTim

      David–I drink a cup of delicious, healthy hot chocolate every day, even when it’s 110 in Phoenix. Perhaps I’m a bridge man between Marlboro and Pajama?

      • http://www.churchformen.com/ David Murrow

        I would never call you childish, Tim. But neither would I order my 4-year-old grandson an espresso.

      • J_Bob

        I like my morning hot chocolate (1/2 teaspoon), with a heaping teaspoon of instant coffee, & a tablespoon of Irish Mist. The later to keep the snow snakes away, & it tastes good.

        In the summer, the last ingredient keeps the water witches away..

  • Jason Hunt

    I don’t know, Onesie Boy looks like he’s about ready for mommy to tuck him in for the night.

    • RevTim

      ouch!

  • Jerry Lynch

    Funny, I don’t see friendliness in the face but a relaxed superiority: “Yeah, that’s right, I’m so comfortable in who I am I can wear these onesie jammies, but I am relaxing at how on my leather couch enjoying some hot cocoa: what are you rushing around doing? I do it all in the comfort of my home. I am Comfortable Man, my nerdiness getting me a profitable gig and no fuss.” He is ready to go online and get more comfort: Obamacare.

  • Donalbain

    I think the reaction is far more interesting than the actual image. It is basically a rorschach test for conservatives. So far we have seen people establish this person’s sexuality, employment, relationships and education. All from a picture of someone relaxing with a warm drink. It amazes me how a simple photo can make so many people so very very certain of some very specific things. Please, continue.

    • R Vogel

      And I love how the Union Suit is now called a ‘Onesie’ and is denigrated as a representation of the nanny state. I guess every character in the old westerns were representatives of the nanny state, as well as these guys: http://www.advintageplus.com/servlet/the-22297/1938-Print-Ad-Underwear/Detail

      • http://www.swordcrossrocket.com swordcrossrocket

        I don’t think people lounged around with it back then. I remember it being used mostly for comedy, with the rear flap providing countless mooning jokes.

    • RevTim

      Kudos, of course, to the marketers. They have us talking about it.

    • http://www.swordcrossrocket.com swordcrossrocket

      Dude, it’s the equivalent of a grown man sitting in his underroos. If he did that, watch the generalizations flow even quicker.

    • radiofreerome

      The gay one is the one in the cowboy had. The subject of their bromantic infatuation.

  • PrimateZero

    In a country where the more physical the work the less you’re paid, is anyone really surprised? We threw the Marlboro Man under the bus years ago when we closed his factories and cut his pay. We don’t make anything anymore, America’s a service economy now.
    Besides if you’re trying to subjugate a population, who would you rather face off against? A shop of rough neck Teamsters or a legion of Pajama Boys. Think about it.

  • http://www.revelation4radicals.com/ radicalrevelation

    Pajama Boy is the child of the “Mommy State.” Literally – a ‘child’ in his jammies.

    He is political correctness in the flesh; a harmless, nonthreatening nonentity, neither overtly male nor female, neither hot nor cold, but tepid in all things.

    Betcha’ his hot chocolate is made with nonfat milk.

  • Y. A. Warren

    “Moments after the ObamaCare ad came out society labeled the second image: PajamaBoy. ” Who is the ‘society” that created this label? Probably the same who thinks it is not manly to love your mother and is to have illicit affairs.

    The image, without the ‘moderator’s” comments may say, “You can make a living while still enjoying the rewards of relaxed family life, if you don’t subscribe to the “gospel of mammon” promoted by most religions seeking to build temples and pay their preachers big bucks.” Jesus walked around with fishermen, feeding people wherever they happened to be. The fish were almost free and the bread was probably baked by those in the community who understood that anyone you feed soon becomes family.

  • radiofreerome

    Christian Haren, the Marlboro man, was gay man as was Rock Hudson. It’s very telling that so many straight men had gay men as their icons of masculinity.

  • john clark

    Why is sexual preference a common thread in these comments? But if it were, maybe it would be of interest that one piece sleepwear have a drop seat, just saying

  • Alan Noble

    It says nothing about manhood in the 20th century. It speaks volumes about wasteful government spending on absurd ads for a broken healthcare website.


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