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August 10, 2015
Lackluster Sex Life? Be a Flirt!
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June 29, 2015
I trusted him and he disappointed me
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May 2015
May 18, 2015
How Do I Cope With My Super-Sensitive Husband?
Dear Shaunti: My husband is great at many things, but sometimes he struggles with getting...
May 11, 2015
Should I Pray For God to Make Me More … Um … Amorous?
Dear Shaunti, Since sex is so important to my husband, and since you say it’s...
May 04, 2015
How Often Do Men Need to Have Sex?
Dear Shaunti, You’re the researcher, so please tell me the real answer: How often do...
April 2015
April 27, 2015
When State Says Pot is OK, How Do I Convince My Child It Isn’t?
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April 20, 2015
2 is better than 1: Facing Conflict Together
Dear Shaunti, I work a lot of hours, and when I’m at home, I don’t...
April 13, 2015
How can I get my teen to STOP relying on social media so much?
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March 30, 2015
Don’t freak out when your man handles an argument….like a man
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March 30, 2015
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March 23, 2015
Negative wife? Here’s how to stop the cycle!
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March 09, 2015
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March 02, 2015
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February 23, 2015
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January 2015
January 26, 2015
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January 20, 2015
Solving Grumpy Guy
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