The 12 Forms of Infidelity in Marriage

4. “Checking out” other people.

I’ve heard people joke that, “Just because I’m on a diet doesn’t mean I can’t look at the menu!” They’re usually referring to the idea that checking out someone is “harmless” as long as they look but don’t touch. What they fail to realize is that the very act of looking and lusting objectifies others, creates insecurity through unfair comparisons for our spouse and subtly pulls your thoughts away from your marriage. Keep your eyes and your heart focused on your spouse!