4 things you should NEVER say to your spouse EVER

2.  DON’T SAY: “You Always…” or “You Never…”

When we’re trying to make a point, we often make hurtful allegations about our spouse that exaggerate the truth. “Always” and “Never” can be dangerous words. If you do say the words “You always…” or “You never…”, make sure you say something positive, like “You always know how to make me smile.” Instead of something negative like “You always make everything so complicated” or “You never do anything to help me.”  For more on this, listen to this  Free audio clip from my iVow: Secrets to a Stronger Marriage audiobook.