
1. His BRAIN…
His brain works differently than yours. It’s not a matter of intelligence or intellect (which are statistically equal with both genders). It’s a matter of neuroscience and mental “wiring.” Guys compartmentalize their thoughts (work, hobbies, home, etc.) where women’s thoughts tend to be interconnected in a way that most men can’t comprehend. This can lead to a LOT of miscommunication. When you talk to a man like you’d talk to your girlfriends, he’s probably not going to process it the same way you will. His communication is at it’s best when it’s centered around an activity and/or focused on solutions and bullet points more than details. (He also probably thinks about SEX even more than you think he does.) To tap into his thoughts, try going on a walk or doing a physical activity together. Physical activity seems to stimulate our thoughts and our conversations.
Here’s what you need to know about his FEARS…