9 “Rules” to Affair-Proof Your Marriage

2. I never meet alone with a woman other than my wife.

I never meet up for coffee or lunch with any woman other than my wife (or my mom) unless it’s a group setting. I’m never in public or in private alone with a woman. This policy protect me from temptation, it honors my wife, Ashley, AND it protects my reputation. Even in a counseling situation with a woman (which I try to avoid), I make sure to keep my door open. I don’t want to create a scenario where whispers of improper conduct could even be entertained.

#3 seems extreme but it cultivates total transparency, trust and communication in our marriage...