9 “Rules” to Affair-Proof Your Marriage

3. My wife gets copied on all of my text messages.

Our iPhones are set up with the same Apple ID where we both automatically receive each other’s text messages. This keeps us in the loop of what’s happening with each other. It’s not motivated by distrust but by a desire to have total transparency and open communication in our marriage. It’s also a very practical safeguard against any form of inappropriate relationships forming. Being willing to share all of my texts also sends the clear message to Ashley and everyone else in my life that we have a marriage with no secrets.

#4 should be standard practice in all marriages, but the majority of couples DON’T do it...