Ten questions to ask before getting a divorce or separation

2. Am I viewing love as a feeling or as a commitment?

Our society has redefined love to be a feeling you fall into and fall out of. This fickle definition of love has programmed our minds to think we need to leave a relationship the moment we don’t “feel” in love. In my book, “The Seven Laws of Love,” I explain all the reasons why love must be seen as more than just a feeling. At its core, love is a commitment grounded in action and selfless sacrifice. The strongest marriages have both spouses subscribing to this commitment-based definition of love.

#3 requires some honest self-assessment…