As a parent, I believe in the power of love and acceptance. The greatest message we can ever give our children is that they are loved, that they are enough. The Bible has unfortunately been misused to convey a very different message that justifies harm, discrimination, and exclusion against many groups, including LGBTQ+. It saddens abd angers me to witness so much harm against those for whom I love and advocate. So, let’s talk about this… Interpretation: As we navigate... Read more
Let’s imagine for a moment… A letter arriving today from Paul to the non-affirming church: Grace and peace to the Church of America, I, a servant of Christ Jesus, called to be an apostle by the will of God, write to you with a heart burdened by the state of your congregation. Though I am physically absent, the Spirit compels me to address you as a sibling, guided by the love of our Lord and Savior. It has come to... Read more
The Supreme Court has done it again… revealed their overt bias by sanctioning clear discrimination by a Colorado website designer. Hate, harm, oppression, marginalization, intolerance, all justified in the name of “religious liberties.” Let’s just be be clear from the start here… it’s bullshit, and it is so unlike the Jesus many of them claim to follow. In their ongoing pursuit of so-called religious freedom, the court and like-minded people are stepping over the bodies of LGBTQ+ youth literally stranded... Read more
As rainbow flags flutter and colorful parades fill the streets, love is in the air, and it is maddening to see non-affirming Christians misunderstanding the true essence of LGBTQ+ Pride. Many Christians believe it is a celebration of arrogance, failing to grasp the profound message of love, acceptance, and unconditional support. Sadly, these are often direct attempts to mask homophobia and transphobia, cause deep wounds, and hinder beautiful opportunities to love unconditionally — opportunities to actually model the Jesus these... Read more
While June is Pride Month, it is critical to celebrate and support those in our community who are LGBTQ+ throughout the year, especially given the escalating attacks on our beloved transgender family and friends. As we witness a rise in discrimination and violence directed towards trans people, it becomes crucial to extend our unwavering support beyond a single month. Amplify Transgender Voices: Trans people face increasing levels of attack, making it paramount that we prioritize their inclusion and uplift their... Read more
In a divisive, often harsh world that tries to mold us, or force us into conformity, Pride month stands as an important symbol of the beauty and diversity that exists within the LGBTQ+ community. I believe it is crucial to recognize the significance of Pride month and the positive impact it has on individuals, families, and society. But why? A Celebration of Identity: Pride month provides an empowering space for LGBTQ+ individuals to embrace their authentic selves. It allows them... Read more
Love is a fundamental human need. We all crave love and affection, and we seek it out in our relationships with others. However, there are certain teachings about love that can be dangerous to our hearts. Specifically, teachings about conditional love can be harmful and damaging to our emotional and mental wellbeing. Conditional love is love that is given or withheld based on certain conditions or requirements. For example, a parent may only show love to their child if the... Read more
One of our most popular YouTube videos is called: A Pastor Looks Up in Tears. It is about a non-affirming Pastor who is shocked at what he discovers about God, others and himself when he gets to what the Bible calls Heaven. We connect with Pastors who experience this kind of regret and change – and we have connected with tens of thousands of parents – most of whom come from a non-affirming Christian background, where they have been told,... Read more
As I write this, my blood is boiling at the sheer ignorance and hatred shown in the recent wave of anti-transgender legislation being proposed and passed in several U.S. states. The blatant discrimination and marginalization of transgender individuals is nothing short of appalling, and it is sickening to see these laws being justified with supposed Christian values. Let’s be clear: denying access to healthcare, education, and employment to transgender individuals is a direct attack on their basic human rights. It... Read more
The term “grooming” is associated with the heinous crime of child sexual abuse. It’s a term that should evoke disgust and outrage. But when it’s carelessly misused in debates about transgender bathroom rights and drag queen story times, it becomes a weapon against the LGBTQ+ community. Let’s be clear: the false narrative that links grooming with LGBTQ+ individuals is nothing but a despicable lie, born out of hatred and ignorance. The truth is that most child sexual abusers are heterosexual.... Read more
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