I recently got in an email with the subject line, “Dealing with anti-Christianity in the LGBT community.” It read: (more…) Read more
I recently got in an email with the subject line, “Dealing with anti-Christianity in the LGBT community.” It read: (more…) Read more
In case you haven’t yet met her, this is Brittany Howard, lead singer and guitarist of the band Alabama Shakes. If you missed Alabama Shakes playing their massive hit song (“hit song” = already retroiest phrase ever!) “Hold On” earlier this year on Saturday Night Live, then here’s your opportunity to be shamelessly grateful to be alive in the time that you are. Because: At fifty-five, I am just old enough to remember a time when music was understood to... Read more
The rational Christian must admit that no one actually, in an objective sense, knows if there’s a hell, or knows how God feels about homosexuality. We can pretend that we know those things, of course. But none of us really does. The Bible is open to an infinite number of perfectly legitimate interpretations. That’s one of the things that makes the Bible so … perfect: in so many ways, and about so many things, it insists that ultimately we must arrive... Read more
Got this in: Hello John, I am an abusive man. I have found many books and websites for abused women. Could you post some suggestions for any abusers who find your website? I admitted my abuse a couple of months ago. I started counseling just last week. I have also found a life skills course that I am taking. I am hopeful that I can change. (more…) Read more
I have zero interest in converting anyone to Christianity, be it “my” version of the faith or otherwise. Why would I? As long as your beliefs don’t in any way contribute to the oppression of others (such as, oh, gosh, I dunno—gay people or women), then what you believe is nobody’s business but yours. Business I do accept as mine, though, is defending the sheer, clear, tight-as-a-frog’s-butt rationality of what I believe. As a logical construct, core Christianity has always been as solid as a... Read more
A while back I responded to repeated requests that I articulate my personal theology by writing the 14-point document below, which expresses the Christianity that I have believed to be true since the moment of my sudden conversion experience. In February of 2012, I and a small group of people who had read and liked my mini-manifesto quietly started a Facebook page called Unfundamentalist Christians. We put my document under the page’s What We Believe tab, and then just …... Read more
The question people most often ask me is, “How can I believe in God, when so many innocent people suffer?” Those who ask it typically want to believe in God, but feel that the fact of innocents suffering leaves them no choice but to remain in their skepticism. (more…) Read more
If your mother's unhappiness—her pain, her dysfunction, her drama—was more precious to her than you could ever be. Read more
I’ll never forget October 15, 2011. That’s the day I received in my email this press release: (more…) Read more
What would Jesus do if invited to a gay wedding? The answer is as close as your Bible. Read more