I’d just filled up the gas tank on my way out of Spokane when I clicked on the radio and heard a song that never fails to transport me back to the summer of 1972.
Perhaps you know it?
It was a sultry Georgia evening and I was babysitting my aunt’s two young children at her apartment in the low-income housing complex known as the Peabody Projects, or as the locals often called it, just Peabody. Red bricked and two-storied, with shared walls on both sides, the apartment wasn’t air-conditioned. I had the kitchen window open, the radio on, and the kiddos tucked into their beds upstairs. I was on the phone — the glossy black kind of phone that you see in all the old timey movies — talking with the boy who I was sure was going to leave me as messed up as that sailor did Brandy.
I couldn’t tell you what either of us said in that phone call but I recall with clarity the song penned and performed by a group of friends from Rutgers University. Brandy was a one-hit wonder. The band Looking Glass would go on to have other minor successes but nothing that came as close to topping the charts and selling in the million the way Brandy, You’re a Fine Girl did. The popularity of the song remains today, with its You Tube version drawing in over 4 million hits.
I imagine it was thrilling and yet frustrating to band members – Elliot Lurie (lead guitar), Lawrence Gonsky (piano), Pieter Sweval (bass), and Jeff Grob (drums) – to be part of a one-hit wonder.
On one hand, all their work and sacrifice paid off. The foursome pooled their resources after graduating from Rutgers, and rented an isolated century house in New Jersey. Then they spent the next year writing and rehearsing, creating and recreating songs that they hoped would find an audience. Brandy did. But that was about it. The band fell apart in 1974.
That has happened to me, too. Friendships have fallen by the wayside after I failed to live up to someone’s expectation.
It happens to God a lot, too.
The minute life doesn’t go the way some anticipated, many people point fingers at God and call him out on it, like disgruntled concert-goers. We cling to two primary visions of God. The first in which God is portrayed as the Happy Santa Buddha whose sole existence is to shower us with untold bounty and blessings. Or the other in which God is portrayed like the grandfather of all drones, ready to attack and destroy us at any given moment, just because.
Neither version is very accurate. And both restrict God and His creativity in our lives.
Some people get so distraught they just up and quit God altogether. They aren’t willing to allow that God does not fit into all those misconceptions we often make of him.
Does your faith journey sometimes seem like a one-hit wonder?
Have you ever been disappointed in the way God treated you?