5 Life Hacks That Will Make A Huge Difference In Your Divorce Recovery

Does God really have a plan? Was my divorce part of his plan?

I have heard people speak these words so many times over the years and although they are painful words, they are also springboards to personal growth. The devastation of divorce causes one to go in search of answers and in search of God, even if one is angry with him.

Why has God allowed all this pain?
If he intended marriage to be forever, why hasn’t he done something to stop all the hurting, the fighting, and the breakdown?
Doesn’t he hear my prayers?

One obvious answer to these questions is God allowed it to happen because he will never infringe upon our free will. We can make all the terrible mistakes we want and he will never interfere. But because the experience of divorce is so complex, it naturally gives birth to a whole host of deeper questions that can boggle your mind and easily add to that feeling that your life is completely out of control.

You know that Serenity Prayer? It might be used in a cliched sort of manner by some people, but there is great wisdom in it: God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference… If you’re divorced and feeling completely out of control, may I suggest these 4 key life hacks that will help you bring some balance back into your life, as well as restore a sense of peace and hopefulness to your life: