I am a female, I have masturbated at some point in my life… 59 respondersand I believe that led to a problem with pornography. 6 (10%)and I believe that led to a problem with masturbation. 7 (11%)and I do not have a problem with pornography. 36 (61%)and I do no have a problem with masturbation. 34 (57%)If I am married, the frequency of masturbation greatly reduced after marriage. 24 (40%)If I am married, the frequency of masturbation stayed the same... Read more

THIS IS WHERE I WILL POST THE MOST RECENT COMMENTS I HAVE RECEIVED WITH LINKS TO THE ORIGINAL POSTS. HOWEVER, IT IS NOT WHERE I POST MY RESPONSES OR WHERE I POST ORIGINAL QUESTIONS. JUST BECAUSE I POST A COMMENT DOES NOT MEAN I AGREE WITH IT. COMMENT: This poster obviously lives in a black and white world, and appears to have never been in a position where they have had to deal with counseling numerous Church members about this... Read more

Click on “comments” under my most recent post. There will be an option under the text box where you can click on “anonymous”. Your comment/question will then be posted anonymously for me to answer. You can also become an anonymous follower of the blog.My biggest concern is that members not reach out for help for fear that they will not be able to do so confidentially. I take confidentiality extremely seriously. I am aware that the LDS community in particular... Read more

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Being a Latter-day Saint, I understand there are many issues that relate exclusively with members of our church that would be difficult to discuss with therapists not of our faith. It can also be frustrating for those who do not have access to an LDS therapist/counselor geographically close by. Or maybe the one LDS therapist you know is a close friend or someone you’re not comfortable with.I hope through this blog to present a venue where anonymous questions can be... Read more

Views on Polygamy123 Respondents I believe that Joseph Smith was inspired by God to enact polygamy.42 (34%)I do not believe Joseph Smith was inspired by God to enact polygamy.48 (39%)I believe that polygamy as a doctrine has been rescinded by God and will not return..    22 (17%)I believe that polygamy was rescinded by man due to political pressure of the time.43 (34%) I believe that polygamy will return as a practice within the mainstream church as a restored principle.5 (4%)I... Read more