Love: A Lost Language in Modern Christianity

Love: A Lost Language in Modern Christianity February 5, 2024

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In a world where the word ‘love’ is as overused as the phrase “thoughts and prayers,” it’s about time we sift through the glittery jargon to uncover what this four-letter word truly means, especially within the realms of Christianity. Gone are the days when love was a radical act, a divine disruptor that turned societal norms on their heads. Now, it seems we’re stuck with a watered-down, emoji-version of love – all style, no substance.

The Authentic Essence of Love

In its rawest form, love was the central theme of a certain radical, Middle Eastern carpenter – Jesus. His version of love wasn’t about staying within the lines; it was about coloring outside of them, often using bold and defiant strokes. This love wasn’t a soft whisper but a loud roar in the face of injustice and hypocrisy. It was the kind of love that didn’t just offer bread to the hungry but questioned why they were starving in the first place. Authentic Christian love is an unyielding force that seeks not only to comfort but also to challenge, not just to console but also to confront when necessary.

The Modern Misuse: Love as a Decorative Accessory

Fast forward to the 21st century, and we find that love has become more of a decorative accessory in the grand showroom of Christian vocabulary. It’s the spiritual equivalent of a throw pillow – looks nice, adds a touch of warmth, but often gets tossed aside when it’s time to get comfortable. This modern misuse of love is glaringly evident. It’s in the mega-churches with rock-band worship services, where love is preached from the pulpit but seldom practiced in the pews. It’s in the performative activism, where hashtags replace actual action. This brand of love is safe, sanitized, and stripped of the revolutionary zeal that once defined it.

Living Out True Love Amidst Modern Complexities

So, how do we navigate the complexities of modern life while striving to live out the true essence of love? First, by recognizing that authentic love is not passive. It’s an active, living, breathing entity that demands action. It means getting your hands dirty, stepping into the messiness of human existence, and standing in solidarity with the marginalized.

Living out this love means challenging the status quo, disrupting the comfortable patterns of prejudice and apathy that have long plagued our society. It’s about moving beyond performative allyship to genuine advocacy, beyond token prayers to tangible support. True Christian love is about embodying the radical inclusivity that Jesus practiced, where everyone is welcomed, everyone is valued, and everyone is loved – truly, deeply, and unconditionally.

A Call to Revolutionary Love

It’s high time we reclaim love from the clutches of superficiality and restore it to its rightful place as a revolutionary force in our world. As individuals and as a collective, we are called to a higher standard of love – a love that is fierce in its compassion, relentless in its pursuit of justice, and unwavering in its commitment to truth.

Let this be our mission: to resurrect the radical, transformative power of love in our communities, our churches, and our hearts. After all, in a world that’s growing increasingly cold and indifferent, what could be more revolutionary than choosing to love, not as a mere word, but as a way of life? So, let’s roll up our sleeves and get to work, for there’s nothing more snarkily sacred than turning love from a cliché into a catalyst for change.

 


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About Stuart Delony
My hope with Snarky Faith is to incite change no matter how big or small. I want to cultivate conversations that help people to look for new ways to live out their faith. I'm also one of the weird ones who think that God still moves today - we're just looking in the wrong places. You can read more about the author here.

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