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A Goodbye

The boxes are packed. We came to Wales with twelve boxes, four suitcases, two cats and one child nearly two and half years ago. We leave with 14 boxes, three and a half suitcases, one cat and two kids. These final days are the busiest, most chaotic. My friend, Haloquin, arrived for dinner and magic last night in the midst of people moving furniture out of our house, me feeding the baby and the three-year old running around in his green, footed pajamas. My energy was frazzled and frayed.

Halo and I had decided to make some magic together. She too has studied Anderson Feri, with the same teacher I did! Halo is one of two other Feri practitioners in all of Wales (not including me) and she happens to live in the same small Welsh town as me. It’s been a comforting gift, having her presence here.

The weather here has been cold and wet – sometimes hailing, sometimes sunny, sometimes lashing rain. Halo and I hoped to get outside, and the weather cooperated. We went to the Fairy Tree, a spectacular oak, half alive, half dead. We walked in the dark, through the cemetery, behind the housing estate, over the stream, through the ankle-deep mud, over the trash left behind by partying teens, and around into the ‘arms’ of the tree.

My Fairy Tree, Lampeter, Wales, during the summer

We lit candles in jam jars, nestling them in the soggy grass and the crooks of branches. And we stood. And listened. And felt. Halo rang her singing bowl, the vibrations soothing my frenetic parts. We invoked the Old Ones, the Fey and the Spirit of the Land.

There’s no way to talk about my experience without sounding completely daft. It was an unexpected, tender, and bittersweet experience. The branches looked like extensions of dryads, dancing, writhing and pointing the way. I felt the Old God. I felt the Fey, I heard them. Water murmured beneath our feet. Oak wrapped around and over us. The Spirits appeared, listened in, and then retreated.

I came close to tears, which for me as a non-crier was a big deal. This land is so wild, so alive, so beautiful. I’m not ready to leave! And yet, I am. It is beyond clear that it is time to move on: due to a mistake on my part we are leaving one day earlier than expected. I hear you, Wales! We’re going already!

Halo sounded the bowl again. We offered ourselves to the Old Ones: we would know, we would learn, we would serve. Yes, this path is for me. For some reason the word ‘baptism’ came to my mind. This ritual felt like a baptism of sorts. Maybe all the water around us – in mud, rain, damp wood – was what did it. One more step closer to the Heart of things.

Such a simple ‘ritual.’ We left behind offerings of sweet short bread biscuits. We said our goodbyes. And back we walked in the night. I love that tree. I will carry it with me, in my spirit.

About Niki Whiting
  • http://western-hindu.org/ Tāṇḍava

    Have a good trip

    Lampeter is a lovely place. My younger sister studied at the college of the University of Wales there. (For those who don’t know the University of Wales is spread out in colleges in little villages all over Wales). I enjoyed visiting there. I hope that you find Olympia just as good.

    • http://www.patheos.com/blogs/awitchsashram myownashram

      Lampeter is going through some very awkward adjustments to the ‘new’ university. It is a very different place than I experienced in 2007. Many people have commented on how demoralized the place is by the changes in the last two years. It’s a shame, a true shame. I hope (and fully expect) Olympia to be vastly better for us. But thank you for your well wishes!

  • Eleanor

    So beautiful. I’m glad, for you, that you had such a moving experience before you had to move on from Wales.

    • http://www.patheos.com/blogs/awitchsashram myownashram

      Thank you, El.

  • Elaine

    You may not be someone who cries, but I did when I read your post. I am going to miss you hugely, I am so fond of you, although we have barely scratched the surface of getting to know each other. Wales will be with you and you will still be part of Wales for me.

    • http://www.patheos.com/blogs/awitchsashram myownashram

      Elaine, I will miss you too! You have been a real gift. I do hope our paths will cross again. If not, I give thanks for the internet which will allow us to stay in easy contact. See you later today for an in-person send off!

  • http://idratherbeiniceland.wordpress.com I’d Rather Be In Iceland

    You have been nominated for the “Versatile Blog Award”.

    Please visit here: http://idratherbeiniceland.wordpress.com/2011/12/18/versatile-blogger-award/

    • http://www.patheos.com/blogs/awitchsashram myownashram

      Thank you so much! I won’t pass it on, only because I don’t think it makes sense in the context of this blog. But I am grateful to be included – so thank you again!


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