The Church today celebrates the feast of St. Monica – mother of the great Saint Augustine. Many of us know the story of Monica – a devout woman who desired nothing more than to see her son converted to Catholic-Christianity. Through her prayers, tears, and example Augustine as we all know eventually converted and is today one of the great saints of our Church.
I couldn’t help but think of Monica’s motherhood and her role in the life of her son. Her story brought me to think of my own mother and by extension the mothers of priests everywhere. The mother of a priest is a special person – she nurtures a vocation from the very beginning. Just as our Lady nurtured our lord from the beginning so too does the mother of a priest nurture the vocation of her son.
Because of the role of the mother of a priest in her son’s vocation and formation the tradition of honoring her at the first mass of her son arose. The newly ordained presents to his mother the maniturgium. Msgr. Charles Pope Blogged on this topic a while back – he said the following:
“What,” you may ask, “Is the maniturgium?” The manutergium (from the Latin manu+tergium = hand towel) was a long cloth that was wrapped around the hands of the newly ordained priest after the Bishop anointed his hands with the sacred Chrism (oil). The purpose was to prevent excess oil from dripping onto vestments or the floor during the remainder of the ordination rites. (In the picture to the right, the newly ordained priest has his hands wrapped with the manutergium).
The use of the maniturgium was discontinued in the current Rite of Ordination. Currently, the newly ordained steps aside to a table after his hands are anointed and uses a purificator to wipe away any excess oil. While it is not technically called the manutergium nor is it exactly the same in design or usage, (for the hands are not wrapped by it), nevertheless this is still a cloth used to wipe away the excess Chrism (oil).
maniturgium redivivus! In recent years many newly ordained have carefully set aside these purificators in a bag with their name on it so that they may retain this purificator and present it to their mother. The same word has been retained for the cloth (manutergium).
I presented to my own mother the maniturgium with which I wiped the Sacred Chrism from my hands during my ordination. Before that I grasped a pair of wooden rosary beads so that the oil would soak in. At my first Mass I presented those rosary beads to my only sister. To my father I presented the stole with which I heard my first confession.
I write all this to simply say that a man does not become a priest on his own. His family accompanies him on the journey to the altar. Monica accompanied Augustine to conversion and ultimately to sainthood by her prayers and tears and example.
It is often said that vocations don’t come from the clouds – they come from families.
It was that way for Augustine. It was that way for this priest.