Archives for May 2014

Southern Baptist pastor accepts his gay son, changes his church.

UPDATE: Pastor Danny and his son Drew were invited to the White House on June 30! Hi John, I wanted to introduce myself to you. My name is Danny Cortez and I pastor a small Southern Baptist Church in La Mirada, CA. We’re about a mile from Biola University in a very conservative neighborhood. Anyway, [Read More…]

Gay Christian teen beaten up, then saved by REAL Christians

I started to ask myself if I’m being the bigger person, or if I am wrongly demonizing an entire population. [Read more…]

Dancing cheek to cheek to cheek?

Dear John, As I read through your interview with a polyamorous woman (1 Man, 2 Women In A Polyamorous Relationship), I found myself tearing up. Because the woman you spoke with explained the whole love dynamic that I have been experiencing in my life for so long. I also appreciated her making the point that [Read More…]

You might be a dying breed of Christian if you believe that …

If any of these apply to you, you just might be a dying breed of Christian. [Read more…]

One man, one woman, one who (like God; like us) is both and more.

In the future gender identity won’t matter. Here’s a part of why. [Read more…]

Is every Christian against gay marriage necessarily a bigot?

The call of today’s anti-gay Christians is, “Stop calling us bigots, everyone! Just because we believe what the Bible says about homosexuality does not make us bigots!” So, let’s think about that. Pertinent question #1: When does the anti-gay Christian become irrefutably a bigot? Answer? The moment he or she does anything to restrict the [Read More…]

Tell me/us about your weather

What’s going on with the weather where you live? [Read more…]

The 10 best arguments for Donald Sterling keeping the LA Clippers

Want to defend the right of Donald Sterling to own the LA Clippers? Here are your talking points. [Read more…]

10 life lessons Jack Bauer taught me

If you haven’t watched “24,” you don’t know Jack about life. [Read more…]

The mother we never had

If your mother’s unhappiness—her pain, her dysfunction, her drama—was more precious to her than you could ever be. [Read more…]