It has been have argued that a concealed affair can save one's marriage and that an open sexual relationship may enhance one's marital union. See for example the video “Is It Ever Okay to Cheat?”, an interview with Dan Savage, and the article by Mel Robbins “What’s Inside an Open Marriage?”. You can find both pieces at the following link.In his interview with Sanjay Gupta for “Colorful Conversations” at CNN, Savage offers the example of a marriage where one of the spouses is no longer willing … [Read more...]
Situational Affairs: Is There Ever a Time When Having a Concealed or Open Affair Is the Right Thing to Do?
SPOILER ALERT FOR THE NEW MOVIE, "THE REVENANT"! I went to a movie theater in the Portland area last night for an advance screening of "The Revenant". Here is the official trailer for the movie, which releases tomorrow: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wg72UQCJFEM.Conditions were bad on the roads by Portland standards earlier in the week. Schools had been closed because of snow and ice. So, it was a relief to be able to get out last night to see the movie. Talk about bad conditions. T … [Read more...]
In my last post titled “What’s Up with Monogamy? Reflections and Resolutions in a Time of Transition,” I noted the overriding sense in American society to look upon extramarital sex critically. Then I went on to ask: Why does American society, by and large, still look upon extramarital sex with disfavor? Does the disfavor point perhaps to the receding echo of an ancient divine decree? Vestiges of the essential nature of things, created and/or evolved?... Does the disfavor follow from the lefto … [Read more...]
2015 was a revolutionary year for defining marriage, to say the least. It has even been debated as to whether or not the legalizing of same sex marriage opens the door to the legalizing of polygamous marriages, among other things. See for example the following articles: “Beyond Gay Marriage;” “It’s Time to Legalize Polygamy;” “The Case Against Encouraging Polygamy;” and “Polygamy Is Not Next.”The purpose of this article is not to focus on this particular aspect of the debate, but on a passing … [Read more...]
Away in a Manger—Away in a Spaceship? How Should We View Jesus’ Incarnation and Human Life If There Is Extraterrestrial Life?
How will Christians worship on Christmas if scientists report this week that there is extraterrestrial life? Will we reword the title of the Christmas carol “Away in a Manger” to “Away in a Spaceship”? Would this suggest that Jesus would need to travel to other planets and become incarnate as a Martian or a Plutonian, or wherever else conscious life is found? Not necessarily.It is not a matter of our being inherently more special as humans than extra-terrestrials. Perhaps Jesus would choose n … [Read more...]
Many people with whom I speak can't get over Donald Trump's ongoing ascendance in national polls. He leads the field of candidates for the Republican Party's nomination by staggering numbers. Whatever you think of him, he is hard to dismiss as an outlier (See "Latest Polls Set Stage for Unprecedented Circumstances"). An African-American civil rights lawyer with whom I spoke on Sunday agreed. Keep your eyes wide open. Don't discount Trump, for he speaks to our base passions. He makes sense to the … [Read more...]
Is a patient near the end of life simply temporarily animated matter--a soon-to-be corpse that is turned to ash or locked in a box? Is the patient a combination of material and immaterial substances, the latter of which is easily separated like a pound of flesh that lessens the body's weight at death? Or is the patient a relational energy (namely, a soul or spirit), who returns to the divine Spirit, the same Spirit who enlivens his or her bodily particularity until life's end?And who … [Read more...]