Don’t Be a Hothead! 4 Key Strategies for Keeping Your Cool

Don’t Be a Hothead! 4 Key Strategies for Keeping Your Cool February 23, 2018

Tip #1: In Advance, Realize “Venting” Only Makes Things Worse!

Most of us have bought into the idea that letting a little steam out of the kettle now prevents it from exploding later, right? And taking a few minutes to vent to or about our spouse, child, or boss just feels quite satisfying when we have steam pouring out of our ears. As it turns out, though, doing this actually hurts instead of helps.

Neuroscientists such as Dr. Brad Bushman at Ohio State have discovered that actually expressing the anger we feel further activates an interconnected anger system in the brain and makes the kettle boil that much more. So while we can certainly express anger any time we want to, the question is whether we should if we want to keep our temper in check and preserve a relationship, a job, or our sanity.

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