4 things to do when you hate your job

4 things to do when you hate your job August 14, 2014


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I’ve had some pretty lousy jobs.

I started out on minimum wage back when it was $4.25 an hour, which wasn’t terrible, because gas was less than a buck a gallon at the time (yes, I know, I’m old). I worked at a pizza place where I swept, cooked and did whatever the other guys didn’t want to do. I was eventually “promoted” to Delivery Boy, where I took pizzas to some of the roughest parts of town and dodged barking Pit Bulls and other hazards.

My next stop was a grocery store where I stocked shelves and tediously kept the canned goods stacked neatly with the labels symmetrically lined up. Next, I worked on a construction site to save some money for college. During college, I worked on a landscaping crew and spent summers working the night shift at a factory where I unloaded trucks.

After I graduated from college, I finally landed some “office work” (a job where you shower before work instead of showing after work) which didn’t pay much and had some office “drama,” but I was just thrilled to be doing where I didn’t smell like a dumpster at the end of my shift! Eventually, by God’s grace, I landed in the ministry. I’ve spent the past ten years as a pastor, which is incredibly rewarding work, but in many ways, it’s also the toughest job I’ve ever had.

Almost everyday serving as a pastor, I talk to folks who hate their jobs, and when we hate our work, it makes every aspect of our lives feel a lot more stressful. Through my own experiences and the experiences of others, I’ve learned a few lessons which should be applied to any work situation. As a disclaimer, I didn’t make any of these up! They’re all in the Bible (which, surprisingly, is an incredibly practical “Work Manual”).

Below are four timeless principles to remember in your work. For ongoing encouragement and tools to help you thrive at work and at home, please connect with me on twitter and signup for our email list.

1. Remember that if you want to Earn More, you have to Learn More.

I’m not just talking about formal eduction (although, that can be an important aspect of it). Look at your job as a training ground for the next chapter of your life. Learn all you can from whoever will teach you. Read books. Listen to podcasts. Find mentors. Keep learning. If you want to move up or move on, you have to outgrow your job and that doesn’t happen automatically because of time. You have to be intentional and disciplined to keep growing. Don’t just talk about it or dream about it…do it!

“All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty.” Proverbs 14:23

2. Show respect even to people who don’t deserve it; not as a reflection of their character, but as a reflection of yours.

You’re going to have coworkers and bosses who aren’t very respectable, but you still need to show them respect. Don’t sink to their level. Rise above. Change the environment; don’t let the environment change you.

“Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.Romans 12:17-18

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3. Save your best for the people who matter most.

We’ve all been guilty of having a bad day at work and then being a jerk to our families afterwards. Try to never do that again. Your job isn’t nearly as important as your family. On your deathbed, you won’t be thinking about your boss or your co-workers, you’ll be thinking about your faith and your family. They’re what matters most, so give them your very best (not just your leftovers after you’ve given your best to everyone else all day).

“Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.” 1 Peter 4:8

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4. Remember who you’re working for.

If you have a mindset that you’re just working for “The Man” or for a boss, you’re always going to be frustrated. The truth is that wherever you’re working, and whatever you’re doing, you’re working for God. He loves you and He’s for you. Let your hard work be a reflection of your Faith and your hard work will honor God and inspire the people around you.

“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart as if working for the Lord and not for people.Colossians 3:23

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  • Jennifer

    Can’t tell you how much I needed this, at this very moment! Thanks for writing this to touch my heart and mind exactly when I need it. I will print this out and read it often. I have been in a job that I love but with a boss who is not the greatest by any means of the word and I struggle to understand why God has placed me here for so long.

  • Diana

    Thank you for this article. I am getting ready to go to work as I am writing this comment. I’ve been having very stressful days at work for the past few months. But this article truly helped me see things differently. Thank you.

  • 7csssss

    Guidence is nice but at the end of the day You as a free thinking individual decide what you need to accomplish your goals. Secondly the man made a vow to be the provider of the household. Never depend on a wife to hold your end of the bargain.

  • 7csssss

    You are a very bitter man that certainly was not prepared for marriage or perhaps married a woman that is not loving enough to be a help mate.
    1 Timothy 5:8 (ASV) But if any provideth not for his own, and specially his own household, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever.

    Then the LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him

    Proverbs 31:10-31King James Version(KJV) Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her lif

  • 7csssss

    1 Corinthians 13:1–13

    The Way of Love

    13 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 And if I have aprophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, bso as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. 3 cIf I give away all I have, and dif I deliver up my body to be burned,1 but have not love, I gain nothing.

    4 eLove is patient and fkind; love gdoes not envy or boast; it his not arrogant 5 or rude. It idoes not insist on its own way; it jis not irritable or resentful;2 6 it kdoes not rejoice at wrongdoing, but lrejoices with the truth. 7 mLove bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things,eendures all things.

    8 Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For nwe know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but owhen the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. 11 When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. 12 Forpnow we see in a mirror dimly, but qthen face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as rI have been fully known.

    13 So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love